Heyyyyyy girl, I'm Tessa. Welcome to Eldest & Exhausted!

I'm so glad you're here. I'm just an eldest daughter trying to figure out how to stay curious and have compassion despite all the generational bullshit. I love to write, especially to help process my emotions and trauma. So if I'm being honest, this blog is really for me.

This is truly my diary - an unfiltered, straight from my heart outpour of the delights... and woes of being an eldest daughter. Oh, and also... every other single thought in my head.